18 year old dating 30 year
Making money and living well is completely and 100% up to you, not your piece of paper.
I never learned anything in college and with good reason: colleges are filled to the brim with stupid people (see exhibit A and exhibit B).
Wait until later in life and pick the right wife before you sign your life away.
Priority numero uno should be making money and building a life for yourself.
Do not take steroids as a young man, your HPTA levels are still developing.
If I found myself at 18 years old, knowing what I know now, I would absolutely 100% not go to college.
She can be replaced and it's not true love that you feel for her it is infatuation. You don't need a psychology textbook to learn that, just a little Bold and Determined 101. The cold, hard reality is that you aren't guaranteed a job or a career and your college degree is going to be the most expensive piece of paper you ever purchase.
If she wanted you then you would not want her so much but because she does not want you you want her. It is time to get women out of the schooling of boys. Women in our feminized classrooms are consigning generations of our sons to years of misery and diminished futures. A college degree in this day and age usually guarantees one thing: debt.
She isn't your soulmate, she isn't “the one”, it isn't true love. Assuming you are a westerner, especially an American, . As a young man you can be free to date around and play the field.
Tying yourself to one woman with a Government enforced noose will do two things: turn you into a shell of a man and significantly reduce your income after she gets bored, divorces you so she can find herself, and papa Government helps her finance it with your money.